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	<title>Comments on: Best of the Blog 2009: Kiss of Death: Quitting the Day Job</title>
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		<title>By: Britt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Britt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Dec 2009 15:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I work for the government.  I sit for hours at a receptionist&#039;s window.  I do answer the phone and have paperwork...I can get VERY busy.  But for long stretches, I am able to write considerable amounts.  For example, one slow day I was able to pound out 5,000 words.  In reflection, and especially after reading this entry, I DO write more here than at home!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I work for the government.  I sit for hours at a receptionist&#8217;s window.  I do answer the phone and have paperwork&#8230;I can get VERY busy.  But for long stretches, I am able to write considerable amounts.  For example, one slow day I was able to pound out 5,000 words.  In reflection, and especially after reading this entry, I DO write more here than at home!</p>
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		<title>By: Ann H. Gabhart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann H. Gabhart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 16:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, Wendy and interesting comments.  I&#039;ve been writing since I was a child. That&#039;s been a few years. I was a stay at home mom and farm wife. I worked on the farm, gardened and canned and wrote while the kids napped or were at school when they got older. I tell people I wrote my first novel while Captain Kangaroo was on. My youngest loved Captain Kangaroo. 

I sold a few books, made a little money. One year might have even made a living wage, but then I hit a dry spell with my writing. I was still writing, but not selling. And so, with the kids older and needing more and college expenses looming, I started doing temporary secretarial work. I found it very difficult to work all day, come home and do chores, kid activities, etc. and still find time to write. But with temporary work, I could quit for a while whenever the need to write started tearing a hole in my heart. And I would. Of course, my husband was working and so we weren&#039;t totally dependent on my income. It was a big help, but we had learned to do without a lot of the things the Jones&#039; had early in our married life in order for me to stay home with the kids. So we got by on his income and the farm income and my part time income. 

Then because my need to write is so strong I took this bear of a part-time job that allowed me to work from home but kept the middle part of the day free for me to write. Worked early in the morning and late into the evenings. I hated it, but I didn&#039;t quit until I had sold two books and socked away enough money in the bank to equal a whole year&#039;s salary and health insurance payments.  Then I gave up part-time work. I read once that sometimes you have to just do a free fall and take a leap of faith. But the thing you newbie writers might need to remember is that I&#039;d been writing for years and years before I was brave enough to take that leap. I have a lot of self-discipline for working at home. But what helps me most is that I have to write. If I don&#039;t, that hole starts tearing open in my heart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Wendy and interesting comments.  I&#8217;ve been writing since I was a child. That&#8217;s been a few years. I was a stay at home mom and farm wife. I worked on the farm, gardened and canned and wrote while the kids napped or were at school when they got older. I tell people I wrote my first novel while Captain Kangaroo was on. My youngest loved Captain Kangaroo. </p>
<p>I sold a few books, made a little money. One year might have even made a living wage, but then I hit a dry spell with my writing. I was still writing, but not selling. And so, with the kids older and needing more and college expenses looming, I started doing temporary secretarial work. I found it very difficult to work all day, come home and do chores, kid activities, etc. and still find time to write. But with temporary work, I could quit for a while whenever the need to write started tearing a hole in my heart. And I would. Of course, my husband was working and so we weren&#8217;t totally dependent on my income. It was a big help, but we had learned to do without a lot of the things the Jones&#8217; had early in our married life in order for me to stay home with the kids. So we got by on his income and the farm income and my part time income. </p>
<p>Then because my need to write is so strong I took this bear of a part-time job that allowed me to work from home but kept the middle part of the day free for me to write. Worked early in the morning and late into the evenings. I hated it, but I didn&#8217;t quit until I had sold two books and socked away enough money in the bank to equal a whole year&#8217;s salary and health insurance payments.  Then I gave up part-time work. I read once that sometimes you have to just do a free fall and take a leap of faith. But the thing you newbie writers might need to remember is that I&#8217;d been writing for years and years before I was brave enough to take that leap. I have a lot of self-discipline for working at home. But what helps me most is that I have to write. If I don&#8217;t, that hole starts tearing open in my heart.</p>
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		<title>By: Jumpstart Your Writing Dreams &#124; Between the Lines</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jumpstart Your Writing Dreams &#124; Between the Lines</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 00:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] addressed several mistakes that can negatively affect your career&#8211; things like loose lips, quitting the day job too soon, attempting to write all over the map or trying too hard to orchestrate a bestseller.  Several of [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Nikki Hahn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nikki Hahn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 23:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome Grant!  I loved reading your comment.  I get to think all day about my book.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome Grant!  I loved reading your comment.  I get to think all day about my book.</p>
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		<title>By: Grant Hayter-Menzies</title>
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		<dc:creator>Grant Hayter-Menzies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 18:13:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went Googling for some answers to my own dilemma of day-job versus the writing life.  In my case, I spent a dozen years as an arts journalist, reviewing opera by night and art galleries by weekend and working a nonprofit admin job by day, before I left journalism to write biographies.  Three have been published, but unless I get a movie deal or win the lottery I can&#039;t let go of the nonprofit admin work I am still doing - especially as I&#039;m working on book #4.  The keys to surviving this kind of life have been listed above - stamina, willpower, a wonderful spouse (I have them all).  But I agree, too, that having something to push against every day that is utterly remote from the work one does at one&#039;s desk at home in the evenings and on weekends is a wonderful motivator.   I sometimes think that if I had a job where I used my writing skills, I&#039;d be too burnt out from that of a day to face working on my own projects later on.  The way I endure is by focusing on my current project, with gratitude that it is mine to create, and that it&#039;s rather fun being what I assume is the only person on my double-decker bus to Victoria in the morning who&#039;s sitting upstairs writing a book!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went Googling for some answers to my own dilemma of day-job versus the writing life.  In my case, I spent a dozen years as an arts journalist, reviewing opera by night and art galleries by weekend and working a nonprofit admin job by day, before I left journalism to write biographies.  Three have been published, but unless I get a movie deal or win the lottery I can&#8217;t let go of the nonprofit admin work I am still doing &#8211; especially as I&#8217;m working on book #4.  The keys to surviving this kind of life have been listed above &#8211; stamina, willpower, a wonderful spouse (I have them all).  But I agree, too, that having something to push against every day that is utterly remote from the work one does at one&#8217;s desk at home in the evenings and on weekends is a wonderful motivator.   I sometimes think that if I had a job where I used my writing skills, I&#8217;d be too burnt out from that of a day to face working on my own projects later on.  The way I endure is by focusing on my current project, with gratitude that it is mine to create, and that it&#8217;s rather fun being what I assume is the only person on my double-decker bus to Victoria in the morning who&#8217;s sitting upstairs writing a book!</p>
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		<title>By: Writing Roundup, May 15 &#171; Jen&#8217;s Writing Journey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Writing Roundup, May 15 &#171; Jen&#8217;s Writing Journey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 11:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Kiss of Death: Quitting the Day Job Wendy Lawton of the Books &amp; Such Literary Agency discusses the potential pitfalls of quitting your day job. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Nikki Hahn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nikki Hahn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 18:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1)  Having only been published for free in small presses, I don&#039;t have the luxory to quit my day job.

2)  I enjoy working a day job and trying to challenge myself every day to work dilligently on the hours available after my day job, spending time with the hubby, and taking a walk.

3)  Working a job is so very important to a writer.  Even if I could afford to quit a job, I would at least get a part time job.  My dream is a coffee shop.  There are so many interesting people who walk in and so many interesting conversations that become stories on the big white screen at home.

4) Lastly, free time is my enemy.  I&#039;m a procrastinator without a deadline.  I must work so I feel the pressure of an unfinished novel sitting on my shoulders.

(And one more thing...If you write for money, you are in the wrong market.  You write because you enjoy it.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1)  Having only been published for free in small presses, I don&#8217;t have the luxory to quit my day job.</p>
<p>2)  I enjoy working a day job and trying to challenge myself every day to work dilligently on the hours available after my day job, spending time with the hubby, and taking a walk.</p>
<p>3)  Working a job is so very important to a writer.  Even if I could afford to quit a job, I would at least get a part time job.  My dream is a coffee shop.  There are so many interesting people who walk in and so many interesting conversations that become stories on the big white screen at home.</p>
<p>4) Lastly, free time is my enemy.  I&#8217;m a procrastinator without a deadline.  I must work so I feel the pressure of an unfinished novel sitting on my shoulders.</p>
<p>(And one more thing&#8230;If you write for money, you are in the wrong market.  You write because you enjoy it.)</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 18:57:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the concept of day job will shift. My ultimate goal is to be a freelance writer/novelist. My freelance income will be the steady stuff, and I will not quit my day job until my freelance income equals my day job pay.

The lack of commute time and effort will free up writing time and family time, and my novelist income can make up the benefits shortfall from quitting my job.

I may think about part-time work close to home, but I would like to leave the full-time, work at an office life behind.

To me, that is what quitting the day job means.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the concept of day job will shift. My ultimate goal is to be a freelance writer/novelist. My freelance income will be the steady stuff, and I will not quit my day job until my freelance income equals my day job pay.</p>
<p>The lack of commute time and effort will free up writing time and family time, and my novelist income can make up the benefits shortfall from quitting my job.</p>
<p>I may think about part-time work close to home, but I would like to leave the full-time, work at an office life behind.</p>
<p>To me, that is what quitting the day job means.</p>
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		<title>By: A. Grey</title>
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		<dc:creator>A. Grey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 16:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Patron of the Arts!  That&#039;s cherry.  I, however, don&#039;t have one.  But I DO have parents that are happy to put up with a 28 year old daughter living with them, helping with the bills and spending all her free time writing and painting!
As for the perfect day job, I don&#039;t think there is one, but I&#039;ve got something close.  I work on a horse farm.  It&#039;s physical, and can be very rough on you, but it also allows for a certain amount of flexibility, and most importantly, I love it (most days anyhow) so when I do manage to get some time to myself, I&#039;m mentally and emotionally happy and ready to write.  Would I like to write all the time, as a full time job?  YES!  But will I, even if I some day can?  Not so sure.  Let&#039;s see if I ever get there, and assuming that I do, let&#039;s see what I learn along the way, then I can tell you for sure if I&#039;d ever quit my day job.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Patron of the Arts!  That&#8217;s cherry.  I, however, don&#8217;t have one.  But I DO have parents that are happy to put up with a 28 year old daughter living with them, helping with the bills and spending all her free time writing and painting!<br />
As for the perfect day job, I don&#8217;t think there is one, but I&#8217;ve got something close.  I work on a horse farm.  It&#8217;s physical, and can be very rough on you, but it also allows for a certain amount of flexibility, and most importantly, I love it (most days anyhow) so when I do manage to get some time to myself, I&#8217;m mentally and emotionally happy and ready to write.  Would I like to write all the time, as a full time job?  YES!  But will I, even if I some day can?  Not so sure.  Let&#8217;s see if I ever get there, and assuming that I do, let&#8217;s see what I learn along the way, then I can tell you for sure if I&#8217;d ever quit my day job.</p>
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		<title>By: Around the Writing Blogsphere &#171; Tales from the Crit</title>
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		<dc:creator>Around the Writing Blogsphere &#171; Tales from the Crit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 10:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Agent Wendy Lawton has taken us a step further with a great post on the Kiss of Death: Quitting the Day Job [...]</description>
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