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		<title>By: Victoria Dixon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victoria Dixon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jul 2010 20:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent points made by Janet and the readers. In addition to the obvious social media (Facebook, Twitter, etc.) I&#039;d include responding to other people&#039;s blogs. I once commented on my disappointment in a particular book&#039;s conclusion on someone else&#039;s blog. I used the author&#039;s name. I understand now why that was a mistake, but it&#039;s one I cannot undo. :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent points made by Janet and the readers. In addition to the obvious social media (Facebook, Twitter, etc.) I&#8217;d include responding to other people&#8217;s blogs. I once commented on my disappointment in a particular book&#8217;s conclusion on someone else&#8217;s blog. I used the author&#8217;s name. I understand now why that was a mistake, but it&#8217;s one I cannot undo. <img src='http://www.booksandsuch.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Erika Marks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erika Marks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 16:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Janet, very wise words. 

In this era of email, Facebook, Twitter, etc. I think it&#039;s safe to say the boundaries have been blurred in terms of professional etiquette, or perhaps, simply forgotten. No amount of emoticons can repair an ill-advised confession (of course, those emoticons are ill-advised in a professional conversation regardless!).

One always hopes to have a mutually warm and respectful relationship with their publishing house, and even at times jovial, but it is vital to remember that it is a professional relationship first and foremost. I&#039;ve found in my years in the working world it&#039;s always best to err on the side of discretion, on-line and face-to-face.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Janet, very wise words. </p>
<p>In this era of email, Facebook, Twitter, etc. I think it&#8217;s safe to say the boundaries have been blurred in terms of professional etiquette, or perhaps, simply forgotten. No amount of emoticons can repair an ill-advised confession (of course, those emoticons are ill-advised in a professional conversation regardless!).</p>
<p>One always hopes to have a mutually warm and respectful relationship with their publishing house, and even at times jovial, but it is vital to remember that it is a professional relationship first and foremost. I&#8217;ve found in my years in the working world it&#8217;s always best to err on the side of discretion, on-line and face-to-face.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandie Bricker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sandie Bricker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 17:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love this post! There is such a fine line between friendship and businesship.  :-)  &quot;Less is more,&quot; I always say.  Especially when it&#039;s about business.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post! There is such a fine line between friendship and businesship.  <img src='http://www.booksandsuch.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   &#8220;Less is more,&#8221; I always say.  Especially when it&#8217;s about business.</p>
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		<title>By: Gina Burgess</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gina Burgess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 14:42:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is an excellent point about social media. I just found out Zoominfo has a file on me and things I&#039;ve published which dates back several years. It is by no means complete, but it even has some articles I wrote for newsletters for the Chamber of Commerce! I was astounded. It made me realize that I should never, ever write an article &quot;just to get the job done&quot;, but more importantly, it made me realize that if it&#039;s electronically created, stored, submitted, published or filed, then it&#039;s out there forever.

Excellent points, Janet, and these hold true for journalists as well as book authors.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is an excellent point about social media. I just found out Zoominfo has a file on me and things I&#8217;ve published which dates back several years. It is by no means complete, but it even has some articles I wrote for newsletters for the Chamber of Commerce! I was astounded. It made me realize that I should never, ever write an article &#8220;just to get the job done&#8221;, but more importantly, it made me realize that if it&#8217;s electronically created, stored, submitted, published or filed, then it&#8217;s out there forever.</p>
<p>Excellent points, Janet, and these hold true for journalists as well as book authors.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 14:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I work for a children&#039;s book publisher. Relating to your article, I&#039;ve seen illustrators say one thing to their agent about their ability to meet deadlines and quite another thing to the designer &amp; publisher ~ this becomes clear at some point when the art is not delivered on time &amp; puts quite a bad light on their ability to be dependable &amp; truthful. This puts a bad taste in the publisher&#039;s mouth &amp; doesn&#039;t give us confidence about working with them again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I work for a children&#8217;s book publisher. Relating to your article, I&#8217;ve seen illustrators say one thing to their agent about their ability to meet deadlines and quite another thing to the designer &amp; publisher ~ this becomes clear at some point when the art is not delivered on time &amp; puts quite a bad light on their ability to be dependable &amp; truthful. This puts a bad taste in the publisher&#8217;s mouth &amp; doesn&#8217;t give us confidence about working with them again.</p>
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		<title>By: janetgrant</title>
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		<dc:creator>janetgrant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 17:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ava, that&#039;s such good advice about social media. Facebook and Twitter (and your blog) are very public venues that never delete what you write. So if we rant about a decision our publisher made that we disagree with, we are writing something individuals at the publishing house might well read. Always be aware that social media is like standing on a soapbox in a town square--that&#039;s as big as the world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ava, that&#8217;s such good advice about social media. Facebook and Twitter (and your blog) are very public venues that never delete what you write. So if we rant about a decision our publisher made that we disagree with, we are writing something individuals at the publishing house might well read. Always be aware that social media is like standing on a soapbox in a town square&#8211;that&#8217;s as big as the world.</p>
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		<title>By: Ava Pennington</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ava Pennington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 03:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wise words. 
I would add one additional area of caution: social media. An author may be &quot;friends&quot; with their editor on Facebook, or have a reciprocal &quot;follow&quot; relationship with that editor (or others in the company) on Twitter. A lack of professionalism in these realms can easily affect future contract decisions!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wise words.<br />
I would add one additional area of caution: social media. An author may be &#8220;friends&#8221; with their editor on Facebook, or have a reciprocal &#8220;follow&#8221; relationship with that editor (or others in the company) on Twitter. A lack of professionalism in these realms can easily affect future contract decisions!</p>
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		<title>By: Wanda Rosseland</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wanda Rosseland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 01:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A good synopsis, Janet. I&#039;v always thought writers should treat their publishers/editors the same way they live their lives. With decency and respect. For family. Neighbors. And business associates. It comes out in the end. 
Wanda</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A good synopsis, Janet. I&#8217;v always thought writers should treat their publishers/editors the same way they live their lives. With decency and respect. For family. Neighbors. And business associates. It comes out in the end.<br />
Wanda</p>
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		<title>By: Rachael Phillips</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachael Phillips</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 22:46:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always appreciate your publishing advice, Janet. Great reminders about how important relationships are in this business--and the wisdom of duct-taping the mouth if necessary!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always appreciate your publishing advice, Janet. Great reminders about how important relationships are in this business&#8211;and the wisdom of duct-taping the mouth if necessary!</p>
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		<title>By: Lynette Sowell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynette Sowell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 22:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is where it&#039;s important to remember that the publisher-author and even editor-author relationship is one of business first. If it&#039;s something I wouldn&#039;t or shouldn&#039;t say at the office of my &quot;day&quot; job, I don&#039;t say it to or about my other employer/fellow colleague well. In this case, the editor/publisher.

An excellent reminder of the perspective we should keep.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is where it&#8217;s important to remember that the publisher-author and even editor-author relationship is one of business first. If it&#8217;s something I wouldn&#8217;t or shouldn&#8217;t say at the office of my &#8220;day&#8221; job, I don&#8217;t say it to or about my other employer/fellow colleague well. In this case, the editor/publisher.</p>
<p>An excellent reminder of the perspective we should keep.</p>
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